It is one thing for Gen X (or it is Gen Y, or may be it is Gen Me, never mind) types to claim that Savita Bhabhi is some kind of empowerment statement for Aaj Ki Nari; one pays as much attention to them as to a typical emotionally insecure, craving for peer approval, adolescent, with internet access. However when the same rubbish starts appearing in Wall Street Journal then one can not be faulted for being irked. Then allow me to put this stupidity at the rest.
Now as it happens I believe that banning Savita Bhabhi was a terrible idea, least of all by some faceless babu having no accountability to people. Also while if you ask me there are better issues to make a last stand on as far as freedom is concerned, well, to each his own.
What makes trash objectionable is whole thought process of the clique of coolness behind this which goes something like, “Hmm, OMG Savita Bhabhi is having sex because that’s what she wants and she doesn’t give a damn about the social customs, which, let’s face it, are just there to repress women anyway because how dare anyone tell women what to do with the body, DAMMIT I AM SO COOOOL!!!!”
This is problematic because
1. I don’t know how much actual Indian porn (i.e. desi sites of yore or before that Mastram, google it for yourself) these people had the opportunity of ever reading, but slutty housewife (i.e. Savita Bhabhi) is a stock character in it (along with maid, the shy bride etc). It pains me to state the obvious but these characters are intended to fulfill the fantasy of the male readers, of easy sexual gratification without social encumbrances, hence the promiscuous women (because normal males don’t actually fantasize about rape). So people searching for women emancipation in porn should have their heads examined.
2. However what I find most repelling about such thinking is that it actually degrades women. It implies that a woman can only be called truly emancipated if she reduces all of her complex persona to target for male lust. “Now, now”, the cool people will protest, “What we admire about Savita Bhabhi is her defiant attitude towards social mores (Because you know social mores are totally uncool)”.
Granted, there are social norms which are unjust; one is confounded as to what is exactly the problem of “modern” types with social norm in this case i.e. marital fidelity. Suppose if the situation were reversed and it was a husband cheating on his wife, will any one consider it cool for a moment. Of course not! They won’t consider it as cool because it is not cool, and this is why cheating husbands are not a role model in society. Why should it be different for wives then? Clearly such double standards are there only because in a Freudian way, the “hip” crowd can not imagine of women as anything more than automatons not concerned beyond sensual gratification, for them women are nothing more than vagina (hence the vagina monologues).
These people, who are nothing more than libertines, dread conceiving women (and men) as social creatures. So indoctrinated are they by the effluvium of sexual revolution that for them life is nothing more than endless orgy with no obligation for society. Infact society is just obstruction in way of the gratification they seek.
They can give impassioned speeches about freedom, but what they want is slavery to the senses, only they are denied this by presence of a discerning society with a core of morality.
As someone said Civilization goes not with a bang, but with a whimper.